Fashion girl clothes help!

Cassiej19 - posted on 02/11/2018 ( 5 moms have responded )

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My husband has a friend and his friend has a daughter and she does not like our daughter, my husband and I asked our daughter that is 12 years old why does the other girl does not like you she said to us that she asked to immature and she dress immature. Some of the outfits that my daughter picks out is a little immature but I don't say nothing to her I just let her pick it out and wear it. My husband's friends daughter is only 10 and she acts very mature for her age and she dressed very mature for her age too. should I not let the other girl get to our brains or let it bother us just leave it alone I have no clue how a normal 12 years old girls supposed to be dressing. I will not let my daughter go to school with holes in their jeans Apparently that is in fashion but not in the fashion and not home. And nothing too tight nothing too short. Besides any holes something tight and Too Short what else is there that is 12 years old should be wearing. I think I need some help. There was some outfits that I let my 12 years old and yes you will see the on a 8 years old child maybe that could be it.

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Bella - posted on 02/13/2018

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Hi @ Cassie, all I can say is. you certainly shouldn't let a 10 year old opinion of how to dress get to you or bother you.
A 10 year old dressing so mature for her age is not something your daughter needs to aspire to in order to gain her friendship. if your daughter is happy with her choice of cloths, then support her choice, I'm sure as she continues to grow and mature in age, her fashion style will change. Decent clothing for her age is the best and not revealing fashion styles. When my daughter was 12, she wore normal Jeans and t-shirts and sweatshirts for casual outings and dresses and skirts for church or formal events. I made sure skirts and dresses were not too short or revealing so that when she sat down she was well covered.

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Therese - posted on 02/14/2018

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Your daughter is approaching teenagehood and her style will be a bit different. However, you should be active in what she chooses to wear and even give her advice on appropriate dress. At this age, they need lots of guidance so I encourage you to journey with her.

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