Feeling unappreciated...

Bria - posted on 06/25/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )




I need some advice.. i dont know where else to turn but here. I haven't been a stay at home mom for long. I used to work but it's became more beneficial for my family that I stay home. My fiance makes a lot so finances aren't the problem.
The problem is I don't feel compensated (for lack of better terms) for the effort I put into maintaining our home, caring for our young children, and caring for him. Literally EVERY TIME I ask for something I want I'm told no or flat out ignored. I've tried to talk to him about it many times but he just makes me feel like I'm being greedy or a b***h. I'm really not asking for a lot though... I just want to be able to buy a cute shirt online or some makeup at the drugstore.. I don't feel like that's a lot considering he doesn't have to lift a finger at home.. I guess my question behind all this is how do I bring this up in a way he will understand? Thanks in advance mommies.


Sofia - posted on 07/06/2016




The problem is his controlling and abusive behavior! RUN, RUN, RUN. Don't get married. You will be trapped. I'm sure it was his idea you stay home----although he makes a lot. Enough for child care.
This is a HUGE red flag. I'm sorry but do not marry him


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