Frustrated!!

Tanya - posted on 12/10/2015 ( 11 moms have responded )

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My ex's wife is a trouble maker, I have talked to her tried to make peace.....and it just keeps getting worse. She says i'm unreasonable in fact she tells my twins they are replacing her "dead daughter" talks bad about me all the time and tries to buy them. My ex told me I am to deal with her since they are married she is now him and what she says goes. She is mentally abusive to my babies and because they have money they feel they have power. I have lists of things she has done and demands she has made on the girls....Heart breaking, and she gets away with it.

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JazzyGirl - posted on 12/16/2015

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Wow this woman is all wrong and these girls are still young get them away from this woman or she will do permenant damage.

JazzyGirl - posted on 12/16/2015

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So why is she around you're children? Have you tried going for custody. If she is making your girls life miserable then she should not be around them. Your ex is being a bump on the log he needs to step up, but since that is not the case do whatever you can as a mom. I know this isn't what you wanted to hear but i don't believe any other person should be in charge of raising you're children and if so she should at least come to you on guidance for what rules or guidelines you have set for them. Yes she and the father are married but in no way is she the mom. Not to mention the fact that she's not doing right by those girls and is making your life miserable. When you said the part about her saying that your daughters are replacing her dead child I thought she needs help. That is unacceptable. Somethings gotta give.

Tanya - posted on 12/13/2015

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They state facts and others have witnessed things they share. She runs the show, and dad is non existant. She won't let the girls talk to me, and constantly says neg things about me. I'm going to help your dad get you guys... I've had a few heart to hearts with her that the girls have 4 parents that love them, and she even Twist what's said.
She had the sex talk with the girls telling them how gay men ( ery detailed) do it and beastiality (sp off) the girls were horrified, she over steps boundaries. Instead of communicating with me as to what I've shared age appropriate, she feels she can say and do as she pleases, without explanation. The girls need to go on no sugar diet to lose weight, I could go on and on. Thank goodness at 11 the girls are smart. They are always afraid of getting in trouble. It just frustrating that someone who is supposed to "love" them has other motives. Why would she want the girls to not communicate with their mom??? They are free to talk to dad anytime.

Michelle - posted on 12/13/2015

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Do you have evidence of the abuse or just what your children say?
It's hard because if the children know you and their step mother don't get along then they can make things sound worse than they are.
Without hard evidence then there's not really a lot you can do. Make sure you talk badly about her in front of the children though because that can make it look like you are telling the kids what to say.

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