Frustrated dilemma

Tabithaplumley - posted on 07/21/2017 ( 7 moms have responded )

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I've been with my current relationship for almost 3 years. And it's been said outlined from time to time that I've wanted another baby. And he said he wouldn't cuz I've already had 2 other children from 2 past relationships. My current children are 5 years apart. I don't understand why it's such a dilemma for him to just be able to say no cuz i have 2 kids 2 dads. Life happens.

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Michelle - posted on 07/24/2017

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Possibly you are with the wrong man. If he hasn't made the move to live together then maybe he is scared of commitment.

Tabithaplumley - posted on 07/24/2017

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I think any slower and we'll be going backwards. Almost 3 years n still not living together. I've been having baby dreams n feeling of wanting another baby... But none of this still doesn't place the fact that he said he doesn't want to give me any kids cuz of my current situation. So maybe I'm just wasting my time on the wrong man.

Michelle - posted on 07/23/2017

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So now that you have explained a bit more I can understand where he is coming from.
You aren't even living together, I think maybe you should actually slow down on the baby talk and work on the relationship first.

Tabithaplumley - posted on 07/22/2017

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We have talked about alot of things. And living together is one of them. We're still in a long distance relationship and I am to my wits ends to try to move closer or live together.

Danielle - posted on 07/21/2017

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You said that you have been with him for 3 years? Have you guys discussed marriage yet? So that there is a bit more stability for your future child and current children! Maybe he doesn't want to put the cart before the horse so to speak!

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