has anyone esle felt..

Bernie - posted on 04/18/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )

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like there spouse some how thinks there better then you? sometimes i feel like the hubby thinks that.. is it that wrong to want to be treated equal and when hes off for a bit of help?

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Crystal - posted on 04/18/2010

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Definitely let him know how you feel, and he shouldn't judge you or get upset .. we're suppose to be able to open up to our spouses. My hubby use to say "what's so hard about what you do?" Um... ya, well he got an eye opener when I just started leaving the house, and going out on my own, not carting the kids around everywhere with me. Give him a "taste" of what we do. I dunno why people think it's soo easy!? We're "molding" our children into who we want them to be, we care for them, we feed them, we play with them, we teach them... and on and on. You should be treated as his equal and if not MORE yourself ,in my opinion. I've flat out told my hubby (in the midst of a fight, of course) ... You provide the money... what else do you contribute?! Oh ya, that got his attention! lol

Angela - posted on 04/18/2010

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No its not wrong. In fact, I take every opportunity to inform my husband of what it feels like to be me. Like I'll say, Gee it'd be nice if I could just get up and take a shower in the morning! things like that so on the weekends he pretty well takes over. They just don't get what its like to not have any time to yourself! Even if you're just hanging out watching tv with ur kid, you have to keep one eye on them all the time and it can be so stressful. Let him know how you feel because honestly men are pretty dumb sometimes and don't know unless we tell them. Just ask him to trade positions for the day, and see how quickly he's calling you to come home!

Iveliz - posted on 04/18/2010

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no girl not at all. Sometimes I feel like that but then I think he wouldnt be able to handal everything I do. and What i tell him dont be mad that Im supermom and you not lmao.... just talk to him and let him know how you feel. ok good luck

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