Help! I cant live like this......

Johnny - posted on 02/12/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Hi my name is Joana, i'm a mother of 3 child to be...1 is still in my belly.
I have trouble couping with 2 child and a boyfriend who at home on benefit and couldnt find a steady job cause he soo picky about it. Every job he had never last 2-4 months and he always complain about it. I know i must stay strong for the child but i cannot handle the situation of having to pay the rent, electricity, water and his dept.. all his money go to his cigarette and some other i cant name here.. I have to say this is all my mistake for falling for him in the first place just to be with him i lost all my relation...friend family now i dont know what to do...If anyone have been in the same situation please give me some advice its very hard for me..
thank you

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Johnny - posted on 02/13/2014

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Thank you soo much for your replay Sawnee you've give me some good advice there thank you ^_^

Shawnee Gomez - posted on 02/13/2014

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I was in the same situation 6 years ago. I had an excellent job making almost $100 K a year, no children of my own but treated his 3 as if they were mine. He was very picky, got into fights on the job, lost jobs or quit after a few months and walked off an awesome job making good money for one of my subcontractors I got him in with. Long story short, I was at the end with his partying, making $ for his smokes & other fun time activities. I finally got myself prepared to move & when time was ready, I did. I told him if he cared about me or my health problems, he would become a true man of the family. It took me walking out the door & leaving which then made him start working and supporting himself and his kids. I still bought the children anything they needed (even though they weren't mine biologically) but it made him grow up. My family refused to help me or talk to me until I walked away and he proved he could do it on his own... Hope this helps, I know its a difficult situation to be in. Go with what your gut instinct is and you will never be wrong. Best of Luck, God Bless

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