How do you deal with your own mom when she bad talks you

Shakita - posted on 10/28/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My mom often bad talks me and tells me that bc i dont have a job and im home all day, that i do nothing and im lazy and she cant wait until me and my daughter get the **** out of her house. I try to be nice. But she has been an evil woman to me for years and now tha i have a child to raise i cant take anymore.

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Jane - posted on 10/28/2009

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Like the other ladies said, it's time to branch out on your own, and take care of yourself and your baby!! No one deserves to be treated like that, by anyone, let alone your own mother !! You need to make your daughter your number 1 priority, and she doesn't need to grow up thinking that that sort of behaviour from your mother is acceptable. Good luck and hope you find something soon x x

Kelly - posted on 10/28/2009

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That is unfortunate; it is an unhealthy environment for you to raise a child in. However, if you live in her house and she pays the bills, you are at her mercy. Time to get a job, take charge of your life, and take responsibility for yourself and your child. Time to move out.

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Do you think she resents you being there at the house? No one should have to take that kind of disrespect. I would do my best to get out of there and get my own place. Good luck to you.

Hayley - posted on 10/28/2009

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i think it may be best that you find your own place. my mum used to be the same but since i moved out we've got on better than ever, plus im lving the freedom and peace lol. its a win win situation :)

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