how to have us time again

Brittany - posted on 03/31/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My fiance and I just had are first child ,Alexa and she has colic and reflux we have changed formula done gas drops and 2 different types of reflux medicine I am my fiance works all day aand doesn't come home till 11 pm so he wants to sleep in the morning and because she has colic I'm so tired that I'm to tired to hang out when he gets home. How do we get back to being us again and spend some time together I feel like if we don't fix this soon we are going to start drifting apart.

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It's part of having kids it'll be tough at times and you won't have the time together so long as you tell each other you love each other and you stay close just have to work through it together trust me I have three kids I know LOL

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Chana - posted on 04/02/2015

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Having us time once you have kids is difficult. My husband and I try to set aside one night/day a month for us. Sometimes that involves going for groceries and out to eat other times it might be just going for a short drive; in February we went and got our taxes done and had lunch but it was something for just us. We always set aside about 10 minutes before bed to just to talk or just lay there and cuddle. You need to learn to enjoy the little moments because for a while that may be all you can get. We have a plaque that says "Remember-Always Kiss Me Good Night" after we had kids that became very important. In your business of everyday life you need to remember the little things.

Brittany - posted on 04/02/2015

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Thank you it gives me some hope that you have three kids and understand what I'm going through and everything ended up working out for you. I appreciate it.

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