How to say no.

Shantoria - posted on 02/28/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




Its tax time once again and this time of year my childs father wants to carry her just because. We have joint custody but she primarily lives with me. the last seven years i have given him $1000 to stay off my back and this year i want to say no he doesnt do anything for her but i dont want the drama please help me its a mental thing i just need support. he puts me through a lot. he is not on child support i have to take her to see him, he never meets me and he us a hour away.


Kayla - posted on 02/28/2013




My sons father tried the same thing for years however we don't share custody. He never asks to see his son so I'm always the one setting up days and times for them to be together. Sometimes it's hard to say no but you have to tell yourself if he isn't willing to help you then you shouldn't help him. And definitely don't let him take advantage of you. You need your money for your daughter. Stay strong and firm

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