Husband gone working for nights and tonight was coming home ....he cancelled to stay out with friends ...I don't know what to do ... Any suggestions? This has happened before numerous times!


Eileen - posted on 11/03/2012




I'm sorry you're dealing with this:(

I would talk to him and tell him how you feel. It's hard being home all day waiting for your husband and then have him go out with other people. My husband did this a couple times early in our marriage and I felt kind of he didn't WANT to spend time with me, but I'm sure that's not the case.

Communication is key:)


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Angela - posted on 11/03/2012




hey huni. i think that firstly he should be allowed a night to blow off steam from working, maybe he shoulda given some notice first?? so you coulda arranged to either see friends or dun something....

i wouldnt make a huge deal.... if he works hard just say in future could he let u know so ur not waiting around expecting him to come home when hes not gonna turn up!!

on the other hand if its a common thing id tell him shape up!!

Patricia - posted on 11/02/2012




you should ask him why he is doing this and that its becomming a pattern,and is there any reason why you couldnt come along .....if he finds a reason for you not to come along or continues to not come home when you have been WAITING to spend time with him...then i would do some investigating......

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