I am 24 with 2 boys and No sex drive please help

Irmarie - posted on 01/05/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I am 24 yrs old and i have been with my husband for almost 7 yrs we have 2 boys ages 5 and 4 i lost my sex drive after i got pregnant with the older child. We have been thru many ups and down in our relationship but it seems like the sex is definitley taking over on his end, he fights about it all the time and me i feel like i can live without it forever. I feel like i only get the desire once a month. I dont know what to do, my self esteem as gone to the grown bcuz i feel like i cant please him and also im very thin as ive been all my life and i dont feel sexy enough. What can i do to feel sexual desire often naturally no pills? We have noone that helps with the kids so we are NEVER ALONE! I just wanna be normal and have a happy healthy relationship.

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Minda - posted on 01/07/2013

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I understand where you are coming from. At age 31 with 4 kids I have absolutely no libido at all. I am going through a divorce now and I wouldn't say that was the main reason but it was definitely one of the reasons. Sex can also become boring when you do he same thing over and over. I never tried this but you should experiment and explore until you find out what turns you on. I am also on facebook if you wish to chat.

Irmarie - posted on 01/06/2013

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Yes hopfully we can because i know that this is a pretty complicated situation, and even if we dont make it i dont wanna have the problem with anyone else! Thank u for ur response!

User - posted on 01/05/2013

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I feel the exact same way alot of the time. I'm so busy with the kids I don't have time to think about it and when they are in bed.... If they stay asleep longer then an hour I'm exhausted and want some me time. Maybe if you and I put out heads together we can figure this out! I have 3 boys 4, 22 months and 9 weeks. Hope to talk to you more! I'm on Facebook if you want to chat more?

Cleaver - posted on 01/05/2013

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i know how you feel my husband has a mistress that he has sex with... i know it wouldnt work with everyone but it works for us shes not a prostitute and as long as he doesnt make me sick i dont mind

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