I don't think my friend's kids like my kids! should i ask her?

Samantha - posted on 01/18/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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hi,
i have a friend with 3 kids and we have all been friends, but, lately i realized that she hasn't really wanted for all of us to hang out, just me and her. i would try and see what they were all up to and try to hang out, but, she seems to avoid it.... should i ask my friend if her kids don't like my kids anymore?

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Amanda - posted on 01/19/2013

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Absolutely ask her! I mean if you guys are good friends, and it sounds like you are, it shouldn't hurt the friendship to ask. Just say, " I have this feeling that your kids aren't crazy about mine, am I nuts?" Then laugh about it. You will know by what she says and HOW she says it what the deal is. Remember that she is still YOUR friend so don't be too defensive. I mean, she can't help what her kids like or don't like. But who knows? It could all be a misunderstanding. Good luck!

Amanda - posted on 01/19/2013

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Absolutely ask her! I mean if you guys are good friends, and it sounds like you are, it shouldn't hurt the friendship to ask. Just say, " I have this feeling that your kids aren't crazy about mine, am I nuts?" Then laugh about it. You will know by what she says and HOW she says it what the deal is. Remember that she is still YOUR friend so don't be too defensive. I mean, she can't help what her kids like or don't like. But who knows? It could all be a misunderstanding. Good luck!

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