i feel my husband dnt care my work as i am stay at home mom.even he always busy in his office work,from morning to late night,i want some time ,some care from him but he dnt understand.even in weekends he take rest all the time no much talking no going outside,i also need rest but i dnt hav holidays like him,i m frustrating and in anger most of the time,plz suggest me what i do??

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Ryann - posted on 01/08/2014

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Presoni, I can say with full understanding that with my first child I did literally beg my husband to help me out. I just could not handle all the unknown stress that I was dealing with by myself. I am really hoping that this second child I won't have to do the same, but I will be willing to for my own sanity. Hopefully you will only have to do it the one time and things will change. If it is like my situation you may have to take drastic measures. I woke up the morning of my husbands day off and told him that he had the baby today that I had plans. Then I left and went to the park for an hour. It wasn't long but that time of peace and quiet allowed me to center myself and when I got back my husband really started to understand how difficult children really are. Hope for the best!

Ryann - posted on 01/08/2014

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This is also something that my husband and I have had to battle out in our first year of having our little one. This is something that you have to start working out with your husband and it is something that may not be solved in one night. My suggestion to you would be to sit down with your husband on one of his days off while the baby is napping preferably and tell him how you are feeling and that you just need a few hours every now and again to rest yourself. Hope this helps. =)

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Presoni - posted on 01/08/2014

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Thanks ryann. Communication wud be a good way to solve my prob.but sometime I think from pregnancy till bringing up baby we give so much means giving birth to a life(baby) is so hard task,we can't sleep can't eat can't sit and n numbers of 'cant..' he have to face inspite of these we need to communicate means we r begging,why they can't understand by their own:(:(.
but I will try this ryann

Ashleyacevedo - posted on 01/07/2014

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Girl I feel you on that I'm a stay at home mom
To a soon 2 be 3 year old Nd
Were in the same category we hardly ever communicate and Saturday's are his only days off and most of the time were Always stuck at home

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