I feel so alone.

Bryony - posted on 08/14/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Hi there. I'm writing because well pretty much I feel like I'm losing it, im on the verge of a breakdown. I have a 19 month old and a two month old and I am absolutely worn out and I'm struggling to see the bright side in life. I've moved with my fiancé to another state where I know no one, he is from the area so all his family and childhood friends are around however I don't have any friends here of my own so I just feel terribly alone. My fiancé isn't working at the moment because he is trying to support me and I am truly greatful for that but somehow I still feel miserable we are really struggling financially to which doesn't help and I know the lack of sleep is a huge factor. I'm aware of post natal and I definitely am suffering a little of that but I just want to know if anyone else has it good and has a great life but somehow still feel miserable and I'm not talking your average sad day I'm talking about when you almost give up and wouldnt even be bothered if you weren't around. I feel crazy. I just want to feel myself again. This sad I feel is taking away from my quality of life.

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Bryony - posted on 08/15/2015

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Oh it's nice to know I'm not the only one but sad also that someone else feels similar. My fiancé stopped working too and doesn't seem to be going back anytime soon so no money really doesn't help. I really miss my friends too it's never the same with his friends all their partners are nice but I just don't connect with them. The only social time I have is when I go to the shops and the sales person speaks to me lol. I got some sleep last night so am not feeling as hopeless today (it's amazing how important sleep is to your mental state) it's doesn't help that my partner and I are arguing all the time lately about the smallest things. I knew having two under two was going to be tough but I didn't expect it to be this hard.

Elizabeth - posted on 08/15/2015

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Im going threw something simular i moved to a different state with hubby he has his real close friends dont get me wrong i grown close to them but i miss being able to spend time with my family n my friends i lkoe a aunt but she never visits me so i feel so alone here i wanna move back to my own state plus im in area where theirs nothing but just moved to by stores but dosent make a difference still cant get around plus hubby dont got a job were depending on my kids ssi whicj i hate i want. My own money n struggle alot

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