I found something on my boyfriend

Shanice - posted on 11/07/2015 ( 10 moms have responded )

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Hello , I wanted to find out out if my boyfriend is cheating or not , he is always out 247 days of the week he always say his going out to get food as an excuse and before he use to cook food at home now he don't he claims he don't eat junk food but yet he stopped cooking as we had a disagreement so he said he ain't cooking for the house anymore so now his using an excuse to go out just for food he always leaves the house late like 8/9/10 o clock at night and this has been happening for a long time until one day I found something on him like a Small Chinese bottle what you use for sex and he claims his not cheating so I wanted to see your opinion because am due to kick him out.

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Michelle - posted on 11/07/2015

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Only you can make the decision.
It's your choice if you want to live like that for the rest of your life or find someone who makes you happy.
No one can tell you what you should do.

Shanice - posted on 11/07/2015

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I don't mind if you told me , that's just the information I wanted to hear to see from someone else's point of view & he if he leaves at like 8pm at night he comes back like 00:00am / 00:30 sometimes he leaves at 9 latest 10 and will come back like 12:30 and remember when his gone am the one looking after the twin babies every single night and it's hard , he knows himself I've told him but he keeps saying his not a babysitter because when I go out during the day like shopping he claims his babysitting but at the end of the day his the dad. That's how I clocked that he don't even really care about the twins all he wants to do is just cheat

Shanice - posted on 11/07/2015

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Yes that's true. & yes have a 6 year old and twins that just turned 1 but his not really interested in twins I could just tell by his personality

Shanice - posted on 11/07/2015

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I just want to know if you agree that we should go both go our ways we got 3 kids together but his no good at all he just wants a roof over his head I got a 4th child the oldest but he is not his hold my oldest child which is 17 does not like him at all they don't talk they walk past each other because they had an issue before but his a wicked and evil person I personally think.

Shanice - posted on 11/07/2015

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I've already confronted him , but I could just tell his lying because he got angry and shouting and getting upset because he knew it was the truth

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