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Ashley - posted on 08/29/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I can't seem to feel like a wife anymore, or be intimate with my husband. Being a stay at home mom makes it hard to transition from. My home is my work and therefor I rarely get to leave my place of business. My husband is the most sexually charged man I've ever known in my life and it's extremely important to him to have a healthy sex life. He needs affirmation and to feel wanted, which I get. We are best friends and have a stellar relationship, but the sex isn't "up-to-par" I suppose. Between my inability to feel sexy, despite that he reminds me constantly, we've had arguments about sex more than I care to relive. It's become a turnoff to me and a chore. I don't know what to do at this point. I used to love sex, I used to be sexually charged too! What happened? How do I fix it. I hate that it's become a point of contention and it seems so important to him yet so unimportant to me. I find his sex drive to be overbearing which has caused me to be put off. I just don't know how to fix it. Please help

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Jaychrysalis09 - posted on 08/29/2013

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Oh ok I understand, maybe a date will help without distractions nor emotions and verbalize your concerns again

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Ashley - posted on 08/29/2013

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I agree with you 100% but the biggest problem I find is that I feel like sex
Is just ways there knocking on my door and he talks about it I simulates it's on his mind regularly and it's been very off putting and that I don't know how to fix, I've asked him not to talk about it so much but it seems that's too difficult a task. I guess I feel like my husband is a teenager hormonally and I just wish he could tone it down!

Jaychrysalis09 - posted on 08/29/2013

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I can 100% relate to this , I find that getting out the house alone even if its food shopping doll yourself up. Plan a spa day, walk in the park, a cozy date night. Even tho you're married its still important to pursue and engage each other . Stay in prayer and good luck

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