it stays on my mind 24/7 can neone help?

Brittany - posted on 03/07/2010 ( 6 moms have responded )

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im 22 years old. i have 2 girls 3yrs old and my youngest will be 1 the 27th. plz dont judge...i love my girls more than nething in the world. except, of course i had wanted a boy and girl, but i got 2 girls. my problem is, on one side i really,really want a baby boy soo bad, but at the same timeim not 100% sure im ready/want another child. 2 put it in a nutshell if i knew 4 sure it would be a boy i would have another, i know it sounds crazy! dont get me wrong i'm completly satified w/my baby girl! i just dont know what do 2. any opinions or ur stories would help!!

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Nikki - posted on 03/07/2010

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I completely understand!!!i love my daughter with all of my heart and wouldn't trade her for the world....but i am not if i should try for a boy or not! i have been searching the internet for things that increase the chances for a boy...i.e. foods,certains months,poitions ect...my mom had 3 girls and i hope i can break that pattern..we'll see when i'm ready i am going to try everything i can to get a boy and if not i guess i was meant to be...i know i am not much help...but atleast you are not alone:) good luck!

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Brittany - posted on 03/08/2010

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i'm soooo happy not 2 be alone!!! the adoption thing is a really good idea but i dont have alot of money (which i no it takes quite a bit 2 do that) plus i would want a baby which i no there is usually i guess u would say..(waiting list) which i like the idea of adopting but.......i dont no, theres like a million diffrent things on my mind.

Rikki - posted on 03/08/2010

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i was a bit the same hun we have all girls on my side of the family as far as anyone can remember lol so naturaly i wanted a girl as its all i have eva known and thought it would have been more easy that way......i ended up with a boy and am soooooo happy with him he is just the best thing in the world and now im scared i mite get a girl next time round and think id rather all boys lol i guess we just need to be happy with what we have or what we get and ither way love them to bits......the adoption thing mite be a good way to go if u are that sure u want a boy :) good luck

Nadine - posted on 03/08/2010

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Having sex on the day of ovulation increases your chances of have a boy. Boy sperm are faster then girl sperm. I know not technical terms. Girl sperm survive longer then boy sperm. But in the end it is in gods hands whether you have a girl or boy.

Sarah - posted on 03/07/2010

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Have you ever thought about adoption? This way you know 100% it would be a boy. I think having that desire to have either that boy or girl is normal.

Sarah - posted on 03/07/2010

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Have you ever thought about adoption? This way you know 100% it would be a boy. I think having that desire to have either that boy or girl is normal.

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