Living with disrespectful baby father

Latonya - posted on 01/05/2016 ( 9 moms have responded )

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I needs some advice I'm living with the father of 2 of my kids, I have 3 but he's not the father of my 1st born. For the past year and half he's been really disrespectful and so on and I just broke it off with him because of his disrespect towards me but right now I can't afford to move out right now so I'm wondering how can I leave with this guy without dealing with him? Need advice.

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Tina - posted on 01/06/2016

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Well then I would suggest that you both sit down and set boundaries, almost like a seperate lease that gives you both a chance to voice how you would like things to be handled from now on. You can get something like this notarized and it will be a legal document for both of you should you ever have to go to court.... If he is not willing to do this at all then I would reach out- see if there are programs in the community that could help with rent and bills until you can get on your feet completly? I really hope you find a solution. Im sending positive vibes your way.

Latonya - posted on 01/06/2016

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I'm sorry I meant how can I live with the father of my kids without being involved with him?

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Raye - posted on 01/06/2016

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Sarah is right. A notarized piece of paper won't help you in court. You have to actually file for child support and custody through court. Kick him out and file for government assistance. Do you have family that will let you stay with them? You really do need to distance yourself from him (but still allow him to be in his kids lives).

Necha - posted on 01/06/2016

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pray pray...talk to god have faith...times are to hard for this children need love and both parents..but u alone no what goin on in your home so you are a big girl u knows best an wat to do

Trisha - posted on 01/06/2016

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That is going to be hard especially because of the disrespect he gives you. Not to be a negative Nancy but,.......You have to have 2 grown adults that can separate their minds from a couple to just co-parenting. And if there comes another woman.........you will have to prepare yourself for that if you decide to stay. And a new man for you, I'm sure, will make his attitude worse for you. I'm sorry and I hope you find a way to make it work where you can be treated right! Sending Prayers your way

Trisha - posted on 01/06/2016

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"I'm wondering how can I leave with this guy without dealing with him?" Did you mean like leave without him and without dealing with him? You have 3 kids, you are a Strong woman and I know it seems hard now but you don't need any man to survive! Stay strong and if you're religious ask your God for guidance. Bless you and your family in this hard time. 💜

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