Living with in-laws isn't working!

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So not only are my husband myself and the kids living with his parents we don't have a car. My hisband wants nevto stay home with the kids becaise I am watching the kids mostley. His family only plays with them for tge most part babysittingvonce in a while. I am absolutely miserable! We were already having cheating issues with my husband before we moved. They are convienced he has never cheated or basicly done anything wrong. I am afraid my husband is planning on leaving from the things he says even though he says he wants to get a house together. I don't trust him at all and I am scared he is planning on figuring out a way to take the kids away manipulating his parents because he will talk bad about me to them. I don't know what to do. They also are trying to convert my kids to there religion too. I have let them go to there church because it's the only way I get any time to myself. I moved away from everyone to live here he was threatening me to to take tge kids away from me I didn't live with his family. I did it in hope I could move away when I could, but things have just got worse. I thought I could have help with the kids so I could get a job, but his mom only wants him to have a job. I wanted our marriage to work, but it looks more and more like we are getting a divorce. I don't know what to do help?


Jodi - posted on 09/16/2016




Your marriage sounds like it is in shambles. You clearly have trust issues, he is a cheater, and you've now been isolated from your own friends and family. He is manipulating you - this is a form of emotional abuse. I am going to STRONGLY encourage you to go to counselling - not both of you, just you. I know that might be difficult, what with having to be with the kids, but you need to find a way to do it somehow.

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