Mother and boyfriend HATE each other

Soldier - posted on 08/26/2018 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My boyfriend and mom absolutely hate one another for many reasons. They have not seen each other or spoke in about 2 years now. It causes a lot of problems, especially on holidays. I dread holidays now because of this reason. I cant even talk about my mother or else my bf explodes. I dont know what to do, I dont see anything good happening. Please help

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Stef - posted on 10/03/2018

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Haha....I'm the other way round.....my boyfriends mother hates me and pretty much refuses to have anything to do with me! Hates my lifestyle (we're clothing optional round the house and yard), she hates the freedom I give my kids and lack of discipline, and hates that I, and my kids, go bare foot everywhere.
To put it mildly, she's a judgmental, fucking bitch...basically I've decided nothing will change so I dont worry about it...she's the loser , only sees her fucking grand kids when I decide and when my bf takes them round...basically you cant get stressed out over shit that you cant fucking change!

Michelle - posted on 08/26/2018

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Have you asked each of them what the problem is that they have with the other?
Is it a big problem or have they just got used to hating each other?
In my opinion, they both need to grow up and behave like adults. It is putting you in a terrible situation of having to choose between him and her.
Of course I don't know what has caused the rift and it may not be able to repaired.

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