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Amy - posted on 02/11/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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He continues to trash talk about me with my kids. It driving me crazy cause I don't no how to get him to stop cause all he is doing is hurting the kids. My kids come home after being with him always upset about something. This Really disturbing to me.

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Ami - posted on 02/11/2013

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I hate to say this but you really can't stop it, however being the step-mom to two kids of a woman who has done nothing but trash talk my husband and my self I can tell you as much as much as it sucks you need to be the bigger person. The Kids will come to recognize this and recognize what your ex is doing, and that it is wrong. Practice speaking kindly at home, and as much as you hate it and I do know you are going to hate it but practice speaking kindly of their dad. Then call a friend or who ever when the kids are not around and vent. After ten years the kids can't even stand being around their mom if she is bashing us and they have finally gotten the strength (which has been amazing because they are terrified of her) to stand up to her and say stop if she starts in. Please understand there are many of us who have been their and all I can say is stay close to your children and they will come to understand through your example.

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