My husband abandoned my 1 Year old son, me and my elderly father

Lilliam Sotomayor - posted on 07/02/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )

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He left 3 weeks ago, dents any request for money for food diapers etc. I've contacted all the resources for assistance! He hasn't even once asked to see his son (especially on father's day) and now he's finally filed for divorce and is trying to ask for 50/50 Time Sharing. Over my dead body

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Jodi - posted on 07/03/2015

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He has every right to ask for 50/50. And he will most likely get it unless he is a danger to the child. He's only been gone 3 weeks, I'd hardly say he has abandoned the child. I'm never quite sure why mothers seem to think they should have all the rights. You should see a lawyer if this isn't what you want.

Michelle - posted on 07/02/2015

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He has as much right to see his son as you do. It doesn't matter that he is the one that left and hasn't paid anything, he's still the Father.
You will need to go to court and establish custody and visitation. You don't get to dictate if he sees his son or not, that's for the courts to decide.
Sorry if it's not what you want to hear but it's the reality.

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