My husband is controlling

Monica - posted on 07/05/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My husband treats me like a child...I have to ask for money...he has 2 teen son ages 17 and 20 and they have more freedom then me...they are not my kids...he often say cause they are boys so he don't care what they do...but me as a wife have rules...I have to clean behind his kids all day and take care of my 2 year old and 4 month old and it's not fair at all...so I told him that his kids need to starts cleaning behind themselves he says y would he do that I'm the women of the house that I have to clean it someone help me please!!!!! Oh and last year when I was pregnant I told him I wanted a baby shower he told me he had no money for a shower so I said ok and I left it alone...his son gets arrested the same month I wanted the shower in my husband bailed him out on $2,170...I cried so much he said his kids are more important am I being selfish? Because his son gets arrested for the same thing over and over and he constantly bails him out...please help

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LastAcorn99 - posted on 07/05/2016

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Marriage in a blended family is never easy. And I’m sorry you’re in such a difficult situation. Like the PP mentioned, I would suggest that you seek the help of a counselor. Sending you hugs and prayers. Stay strong, okay?

Strong - posted on 07/05/2016

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I’m so sorry to hear about your situation. Have you ever thought about counseling? I know that Focus on the Family can provide a free phone consultation with a licensed counselor if you call this number 855-382-5433. One of them would be in a better position to help you deal with your circumstance. I hope you reach out for help as soon as you can. I said a prayer for you. Hugs and love.

Jodi - posted on 07/05/2016

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Your husband is an abusive asshole. I'd be leaving him. But that's me. I did leave my ex when he tried the "your the woman, so YOU should be the one in the kitchen". I yurned around and told him he was the man, so maybe he shouldn't be relying on me to earn the greater income (at the time I was working longer hours and earning double the money) and kicked his ass out of the house. Not so easy in your case, as you don't have an income, but do you have family you can go to?

But I also agree with Evelyn, that if he was like this before you married and before you had children, then you are really in a situation you put yourself in.

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