my husband sets a curfew on me..aaahhhhh

Chesnie - posted on 03/29/2010 ( 6 moms have responded )

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My husband goes out after work sometimes to have drinks with his friends but usually comes home around 730ish..He has a demanding job and so I am ok with the drinks but of course I have to find a baby sitter which is easy if I want to go out. But the deal is, my girl friends dont want to sit around a bar, watching football games. We like to go out dancing and that usually doesnt get going til around 10. My hubby says that basically I have a curfew of 10 and nothing good happens after 10. My parents weren't even that strict geez... I am too embarrased to tell my friends I cant go out after 10 so I just dont go. Now of course if him and I go out dancing or night on the town we stay out way late!! It's really a trust issue on his part, I know that because I have no desire for any other man! plus he did make a comment that is contradictory. It's ok for guys to go out and drink but if a girl that has a kid (with him or whatever) goes out (he calls it slutting around) she is an unfit parent.

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Jessica - posted on 03/29/2010

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OMG slap him! He's your husband, not your father! I can't believe that!!!

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Chesnie - posted on 03/30/2010

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well its a big fight..I can go out he just wants me to go out early and not come back home at midnight. there will come a time i will go out and say sorry hon! im an adult..

Annemaree - posted on 03/30/2010

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WOW WELL ME N MY HUSBAND HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP HE URGES ME TO GO OUT ON GIRLS NITES AS HE KNOWS I NEED A BREAK FROM THE KIDS HIM N HOUSEHOLD CHORES ...HE GOES OUT ON HIS BOYS NITES TOO ... SORRY TO SAY THIS BUT HE IS UR HUSBAND UR LOVER THE FATHER OF UR BABY !!! NOT UR BOSS!!! SCREW THAT I WOULD BE SETTING HIM STRAIT N ASKING HIM Y HE IS SO JELOUS ??? HE HAS TO UNDERSTAND U NEED TIMEOUT FOR URSELF UTHERWISE UR GOING TO RESENT HIM FOR NOT ALLOWING U TO GO OUT ...... I SAY GO OUT HAVE FUN !!!

Chesnie - posted on 03/29/2010

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well i am not into the club thing much anymore so I dont go out but it would be a knock out drag out for sure.. lol

Medic - posted on 03/29/2010

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tell him to kiss your ass!!!!! Whats good for the goose is good for the gander

Mandy - posted on 03/29/2010

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What happens if you do stay out past 10? My husband tried to pull the same crap....telling me when to be home and stuff....but he would do it even if I was just hanging at my sister's house or something (I don't drink so its never a bar issue).....but basically it took a few rip roaring fights and me never giving in to his curfew and letting him know that I am an adult woman and he is my husband, not my father.....now he watches the kids for me and doesn't bug me about what time I'll be home. Granted this only happens every once in a while Maybe once or twice per month max.

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