my husband spends his more time with his friendsbut ignore my feelings

Nisha - posted on 08/07/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I have twin boys of 6 years. At the time of last months of pregnancy till they r of 2 years he ignored me a lot. That time he makes me feel that they r only my responsibility. He use to come at midnights. Then children grown up and I tied up with my husbands aunts , by their help I was able to join him at least once a week. Now my husband started a new business and earning very good. But now again he started ignoreing me even on sundays he have no time for me and kids. He drinks and he had a big circle. Every day he is with a new friend but not with me. I lives in India. From1 to 2 months he dont even came at 8pm. Some times I was waiting desperately for him and even tell him by calling him but then after he use to come late nights. These days I am feeling very low.I dont want to go my mothers place as it is very common in India. I am a home maker it makes me difficult what to do. I make every possible things to make him realised that I am loosing his attention but he keeps on doing such things as he knows that I cannot do anything. Tell me what to do

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Eva - posted on 08/11/2013

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You poor thing. Life sometimes gives you lemons, and now its time to make lemonade. Enjoy your beautiful children, your family that loves you and patiently wait for your husband. When he does come home, smile and tell him all the joyous things that happened in your day. The children learning something new, make him see how amazing you and the kids are. This will make him feel like he's missing out. Good luck. Marriage is hard at time, especially when the men are young. He'll grow up, and you will be there waiting.

Claudia - posted on 08/08/2013

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Nisha, sorry to hear about your situation. Have you try to talk to your husband with no nagging or complaining? next time he comes home early just enjoy it and the following day tell him how much you enjoy his company and you would love it if you both could start doing it more often. Try something new beside what you have done, since it seems it has not been working.
wishing you well,
Sofia

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