Need advice Baby father issues

Mia - posted on 04/24/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )

6

0

3

My baby's father wasn't there for me while I was pregnant he left me my daughter is 5 months now and got with another girl now his with her and there having a baby and after my the baby was born him and his family kept begging for a DNA test it came back 99% ..his girlfriend is really jealous of me and the baby and doesn't want him to have anything to do with her and or me but at times he beggs me to see her but doesn't ever offer anything and treats his girlfriend kids like his own but his own baby like she's nothing and his always disrespecting me. Would it be best to keep him away from her and his family ? They are all on his side and I just wanna protect my daughter from getting hurt.

2 Comments

View replies by

Terri - posted on 04/28/2016

6

0

2

Get a neutral family member to make arrangements with him for child support and visits out of court but if he won't stick to it then you have the court do it for you. Every child deserve quality time with their father even if the parents hate each other.

Michelle - posted on 04/24/2016

5,041

8

3249

That's not your choice to make.
You need to go to court and get custody, visitation and child support sorted out and official.
He is her Father and has as much right as you do to have a relationship with her. It's not up tp you to say that he can't see his own daughter.

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms