Need advice on boyfriend and my daughter

Jassminepannowitz - posted on 05/20/2018 ( 1 mom has responded )




I have an 8 month old daughter. Her father and I seperated just after I had her, but weren't really together for most of the pregnancy. I tried making it work for her sake, despite it seriously not working due to his alcohol and drug use and general lack of care and interest in our unborn baby, which led to a dv put in place by police because of an incident that occured. Since her being born, he has never contributed a single cent to her, has seen her once when she was born and she doesn't even know who he is. She has started talking and keeps calling my partner dadda and daddy. I kept correcting her but she continues to call him that and Ive kind of given up. He helps so much with her, is always around and adores her. He treats her like his own. She loves him to bits and he is the only male figure she has ever known. What do I do? Should I stop her from calling him that? Her real father has no interest in knowing, supporting or seeing her. He hasn't attempted to be apart of her life what so ever...

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