needs some advice

Natalie - posted on 04/07/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Hi, I have a four year old...and my boyfriend of two years and her seemed to stop getting a long...they only see eachother maybe once a week...but it makes me sad that when we all are together it's more of a project then fun...I am a stay at home mom and she lost her father when she was a year...i just don't know what to do to make my time with my boyfriend more enjoyable for everyone...help please

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Kristin - posted on 04/07/2010

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She may be feeling a little abandoned by him. He used to be there for her all the time and now it's only once a week. Maybe they need a little time together just the two of them to rebuild the relationship. Just a though, hope things get easier soon.

Natalie - posted on 04/07/2010

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Thanks! Nothing happened! we used to live together 5 months ago and our lease was up so he moved to his moms and i moved back home to say up to buy a house and when we lived together she and him got along great and now that they don't see eachother as much...i dunno i will try your advice tho

Fabiola - posted on 04/07/2010

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Hi! What I would do in your case is try to find some professional help not for my child, but for me, a professional who would give me some advice in trying to handle this the best way possible. Maybe something happened between your baby and your borfriend that made her put some distance between them. Have you asked her if something happened, or did he say something to her that she didn´t like? I hope this helps.

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