negative preg test=disappointed

Jaychrysalis09 - posted on 08/25/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )

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Hey ladies I'm new here, my name is Jeany and I am a sahm to my 7 1/2 month old boy named Eli. My husband and I have decided to start working in baby #2 . I'm still breastfeeding and supplement formula when needed. Ive yet to menstrute postpartum. And I know breastfeeding can hinder me ovulating but my son is sleeping through the night and I figured that would hwlp. Anyway we've begun the process and today I've noticed an increase in my discharge and was hopeful so I snuck a test and it was negative, didn't tell hubby because he would be sad as well. Anyway I'm sad

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User - posted on 08/31/2013

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Yeah I stumbled upon it and really cant remember how, but surely glad I did

User - posted on 08/29/2013

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Patience really is a virtue. God's going to guide us in our situations. I catch myself, like most do, caught up in the moment and worry comes and I get emotional because I didnt get my way. But I try to re-evaluate everything and I quickly realize that Im trying to control it and not letting Him fully in. Its so easy to do really with so much going on in the world today. Our time will come though, God has a plan, and when it does it will be for the best.
I really love to be able to come to this website to to talk with others, and to get great advice especially coming from those who know Jesus. Its a blessing. Thank you too, Im looking forward to the day I can bring my son and cute little brother or sister.

Amanda - posted on 08/29/2013

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Amen Stacy! Great words of wisdom. Remember that it is God's timing and not ours. I didn't get pregnant as soon as I wanted to but God knew when would be best for us and I am so glad it took longer than I wanted. It all worked out better than I could have imagined! Stay obedient and trust God. Praise Him in this storm of your life. Be encouraged! Love you sister!

User - posted on 08/28/2013

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I completely understand what you are feeling. I have felt the same quite recently. I have been trying since May and now August almost September... nothing :( With our first We got marriage and literally a few days later conceived. It didn't take long at all and now Im like whats going on??
But with that said I have full faith in God that He will bring to us a child when the time is ready. His time might not always line up with the time that we expect, but just hang in there and don't be too disappointed. You have a beautiful boy to take care of, and its such a blessing to have a child. To have more, I can just imagine how great that would be, but we cant let not having another bring us down. When it is time, it will come.
I've always heard that when your discharge increases its possible that you could be ovulating, taking a test would be the best way to know. And also stress can keep you from getting pregnant. Just let it out of your hands, and try not to think too much about it and it'll happen, just be patient. :)
It is saddening when it doesn't happen, I know, I've cried about it before, it was rough especially that first test. Just know you are not alone. Hang in there and I pray that you will be able to conceive a 2nd little miracle

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Jaychrysalis09 - posted on 08/29/2013

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Thank you amanda I am truly encouraged and blessed to have sisters in Christ to share thier wisdom with me. Patience is a virtue

Jaychrysalis09 - posted on 08/29/2013

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Thank you so much responding, and I'm grateful for the reminder that God's timing is slways best. Thank you for the prayers and I'm praying for you as well. I've been feeling nausea so yesterday I went to the clinic for a blood test, I figured 10 bucks no harm. I get the results tomorrow I'm prepared God is good in all of this

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