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Roberta - posted on 12/16/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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hi im robbie and i'm a stay at home mom and i lost myself the 1st 2 years of staying home with the kids ....
im 25 years old with 3 kids and i dont feel pretty not even when my fiance tells me .. i suggusted for us to take a break so i can learn to love myself b/c i cant let him love me if i dont love myself right????????

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User - posted on 12/17/2012

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I think that maybe some "mommy" time and alot of it is what you're saying u need. If you can't see yourself without your fiancé then explain to him that you just need sometime to focus on yourself and its nothing he's done. It's ok to be selfish sometimes as long as your improving the quality of life!

Ami - posted on 12/16/2012

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Robbi,
I admire what you are trying to do, but I need to ask you a couple of questions. First are all of the kids from the same father? Just be truthful with me I am not at all judgmental I just need to understand this journey you are on a little better. Second how long have you been together with your fiance? Third what kind of shows movies do you love the most? (Law and Order, Twilight, The Middle, Warehouse 13, Star Wars, House Wife's)? I know these questions sound really silly but if you are completely honest with me maybe I can help. I may not know what I am doing when I comes to raising my kids, but when it comes to helping people find what they want out of life I am pretty good at that. I have 2 Masters degrees and 3 PhD's. I may suck when it come to kids but I am very happy in my life and I am in an amazing marriage. Plus I am old enough to be your mom and have a daughter the same age as your kids so we all have our baggage and we all have stuff to contribute.

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