punishing a 5 year old

Allison - posted on 05/13/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )




ok here it goes.....i have a 5 yr old girl,with a severe attitude problem.she constantly stomps here feet when you tell her to do something that SHE DONT WANT TO DO! shes always bring bad marks home from school.what is the best way to break this b4 it goes too far? there are so many different views on abuse...so i would like to know your opinons.any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!


Andi - posted on 05/13/2010




I would talk to her teacher and ask for advice. Is she getting enough sleep at night? Does she have vision or hearing problems that have gone unnoticed? Is there a physical reason for her behavior? If not, then maybe look at your parenting style and adjust to better fit your childs temperment. Is she a child that is slow to transition? If so, then use language to give her a chance to process the request. For instance, "I need you to clean up your toys. I'll give you 10 minutes to get it done and then a time-out." And follow through.
Is she mimicing behavior she sees in others? Does another child around her display this type of behavior? Or a family member? Maybe discuss this behavior with her when you notice it in others and talk to her about better way that child could have handled a situation.
Good luck.

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