remarry and have kids( do kids makes difference in marriage?

Lyn - posted on 01/22/2014 ( 6 moms have responded )

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Does it better in a relationship if you have a child with the man or not? I am about to get remarried n I have two kids from previous marriage and my fiance also has some kids . I am 41 or most 41 and I am very afraid of having another child but do having a child make a difference in our relationship?

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Lyn - posted on 01/23/2014

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To Angela. And after I don't live my life to pleased the world or people but god is who I pleased not human.

Lyn - posted on 01/23/2014

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Angela thanks. This is going to be my husband. He want another child but I don't but I will leave yo the hands of god. I don't no anything in life with my own mind but I seek for my heavenly fathers wisdom and direction in all I do. If we choose to have another child it is part of marriage and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that at all but it's is all up to me and god.

Lyn - posted on 01/22/2014

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Thank you so much Sarah Hoagland and everyone else. Yes I am so so scared and my biological clock is running out at 41 and I don't know what to do. Well my fience is not even here yet. He is in Europe and his kids are not living with him at this time , however he is planning to move to north America. The whole thing is so stressful because I went through a lot with my ex husband and I raise my two children on my own as a single parent for years. One is 18yr and the other is 10 years. I did not get no financial or physical support from him or anyone else n it has hurt me deeply. But god has brought me through it. Plus my family is not here so I did not have anyffamily support of raising my kids but it is through god that strengthens me. I love him with all my heart and I have been faithful to him. With my abusive and negectful father which is my ex husband I give it to god. I am even afraid of getting involved with my again but this my fience he is a trustworthy man but I am still scared.

Also do u know a real work from home career? Not something fake and waste my time but I am looking for a true company that I can work from home or business career. Thanks for your help and support may god bless all of u

Sarah - posted on 01/22/2014

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My suggestion is to first get married and allow everyone to adjust. In many situations having a child with the new husband makes things more complicated and harder. Just blending families is going to be hard and complicated I would not be looking to add a new baby to the mix right now.

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