Sex..Don't Ask for it!

Megan - posted on 05/29/2011 ( 7 moms have responded )

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Not in the mood with everything going on Normal? or not? I have 5 children, busy at work, studying at school, getting summer programs ready for the children to keep them busy, family, friends, birthdays, deadlines at work ugh its a mess!

Is it me ?? or normal?

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√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 05/31/2011

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Normal, but not healthy. No matter what, you should try to find something to please each other

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I have the same problem! I do not work, but my husband has a backwards work schedule and works a lot, the stress of schooling, kids, ex's, taking care of my home, money, lack of sleep is really rough. I am also on the depo shot, which I hear lowers the sex drive. So I am going through the same thing! I do not know it if is "normal" though!!! I sure hope so

Kimber - posted on 05/30/2011

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i would say no worries there. It sounds like to me you are a really,really busy kind of person to me,so why add another chore on your list of to do's if you ask me,but iam also married,and i know you can't go a real long time,and not have sex with him with out haveing to deal with all of that stuff,but wich ever you decide good luck to you!!!,and also good luck to you and all that you have going on right now too!!

Melissa - posted on 05/30/2011

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It's normal, especially when stressed, but you and your man need a few hours just to yourselves. Mutual massages may help get ya'll started. ;)

I understand though. May and August are both super busy and I do the same thing. Poor guys.

Toni - posted on 05/30/2011

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Totally normal! I'm the same way. Got a lot going on with my child in the summer, and I'm tired!!

Bonnie - posted on 05/30/2011

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It's normal. If you have a lot going on and you are stressed it doesn't help. You are probably over tired by the time the kids are in bed. It's a lot.

Jessica - posted on 05/30/2011

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I'm the same! Just not interested. I thought maybe it was from having my tubes tied.

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