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Nikkole - posted on 04/14/2010 ( 13 moms have responded )

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hi, I get on COM today and i have on new message, and its some lady that i never talked to, telling me that i shouldnt spank my child! She tells me that it makes them violent, and teachs them to hit, and then she go on telling what i can do beside spaking and if i need any more ideas i can ask her for her help. I am so mad that she thinks that she has the right to tell me what to do with my child and then tells me how to discipline my child. I just think that this is really balls bc i would never messeage some one that i didnt know and tell them what to do with their child.

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Dawn - posted on 04/14/2010

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i would just ignore them and if they keep bothering you then try to contact one of the higher ups from circle of moms or the administrator.

Dawn - posted on 04/14/2010

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but the block feature does not stop someone from harassing you on a conversation thread . it just keeps them from viewing your profile info.

Shelley - posted on 04/14/2010

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Thankgod for the block a person feature & delete button some are taking that conversation way to far every parent has their own way of parenting & others have to understand that that is ok what works for one mom might not work for the other. Don't let negative people get you down. Some people just have to much time on their hands & want to cause drama.

Kristi - posted on 04/14/2010

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That would irritate the h*** out of me too! I don't like spanking my son, but sometimes, the action calls for it.

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Jenna - posted on 04/15/2010

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lol did you laugh??? I would have laughed and said thank god you don't know her in real life!!! ;) you're a doing a fine job, Mommy!

Dawn - posted on 04/15/2010

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COM needs to come up with a feature that allows one to quickly report someone if that person is stalking,verbally attacking, harassing on public threads or leaving unwanted messages on one's profile.

Dawn - posted on 04/15/2010

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this person is one of those kinds of people who is self rightous and thinks that they can force their beliefs on others.they believe everyone who does not believe the same way they do are wrong and that their way is the only way to do things. you know that you are a good mom and you don't need people llike that to tell you otherwise.Nikkole, it is odd what that person did because that person is not playing with a full deck and has issues. that person had no business contacting you with unwanted and unwelcome advice.

Dawn - posted on 04/15/2010

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i think that this woman who sent that message to you is a trouble maker. i said something along the lines of what you said Nikkole.and the woman harassed me for 2 days on the public conversation threads. i reported such a person to the administatror and went as far as contacting a higher up from COM and sent a link to prove that this was an issue

Nikkole - posted on 04/14/2010

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it was just so odd bc my lil girl is 6 months old. i know i have said if i have tired very thing and then it dosent work i would spank, but thats it

Eleisha - posted on 04/14/2010

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I too am anti-smacking, and tend to share the same view BUT, I would NEVER harass anyone over the issue. What a parent does to discipline their child is no one's business but their own (unless it borders on abuse). She has NO right to attack you on how you discipline your child. I too would be trying to block and ignore her!

Jodi - posted on 04/14/2010

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I am anti-spanking myself, so while I agree with said lady on the issue of spanking, she NEVER should have messaged you if you two have never spoken!!!! Some People is right!!!!!

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