Sooo ever since I had my first son I have not been able to have fun I have ,3 kids and I get tierd of having to cook ,clean,change diapers wash dishes, laundry and my husband cant help cuz he is always tierd I honestly dont know what to do sometimes I feel like going crazy with my kids crying and fighting over the same thing!!! I have a 5yr,2yr,and a 7month,


Deidre - posted on 03/17/2012




I feel for you IIse. I am a single mother of 3 growing boys. They are very active. I have learned to just have my fun with them. It's difficult in the beginning because our body is literally trying to recover and recoup. I was with the father's during the beginning as well and that was even more exhausting... Only because it kills me to see them NOT intervene when it's obvious the mother is overwhelmed. I may have a warped sense of what a man or any other adult should be capable of their awareness of their surroundings. It makes me sad to know that their is someone who is fully capable of helping in any type of way and they prefer to ignore the situation. I commend each and every person in the world who's partner has given birth while they stood by her through it all and continue to be her backbone in times of struggle. It takes a village to raise a family, I know that for a fact. It doesn't always have to be the significant other, but it is an extra bonus in my heart :)

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