soooooooo, please dont bash........

Juanita - posted on 04/29/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




me and my husband want to have another baby in about a month or so, we have no support... they say we cant afford any more.
i got to my 6 week check up in bout a week or two.


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Are you asking a question?
Do you mean that you have your 6 week check after giving birth in a week or two and want to start trying for another baby then if your doc gives you the okay?

Only you and your husband know what you can or cannot afford (unless you've told whoever "They" are about your financial situation). Look at your budget, expenses, savings, etc. If you know what a kid costs, you can determine if you can afford the next one or not--If this last one was your first and you don't really know exactly how much they cost, talk to your financial consultant. He or she has formulas for average child raising expenses and can help you determine what you can afford or if you are really determined, where you can cut back to afford the baby if you don't quite have the budget. If you can afford the next kid, forget what "they" say, and go for it. If you realize you can't, just wait a little while. They can still be very close with two years instead of one year between them.

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