stay at home mom got kicked out of house with daughter

Chica - posted on 02/15/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I have a very hyper active 3 year old daughter. My fiance of almost 4 years and the dad of my child worked anywhere from 10 to 18 hours a day. I had a very large house a ddog and 2 cats. All I seemed to do was clean and take care of my fiance and daughter. He viewed me as his maid. Dinner had to be on the table a certain time even if he didn't come home. I would fall behind every so often and my family would help me catch up. He never helped with anything.including picking up after himself. His father convinced him to kick us out. Not to mention we never fought ever. It was a suprise to be but he thought Ishould do everything 110 percent. Not even a week out of the house he served me with.full custody papers. He dosent know our daughterand her special needs. She's been in speech therapy for 8months and still isn't talkin to well. He's blaming me even though he never met her speech therapist. I'm on week 3 now of being out of the house. She still resides with me but we have joint custody now. I could go on and on. I need someone to talk to.

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Megan - posted on 02/16/2013

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Yeah life isn't perfect... and my husband helps out a lot as well. I never said you should have dinner on the table right on time, but it is understandable that after working very hard all day you would want to have some food... If I worked all day I sure would... Not sure what you meant by "we aren't maids" but OK?

Cleaver - posted on 02/16/2013

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ok megan we arent maids if dinner is a little late my husband understands and helps me and he works really hard all day if he wants dinner to be in the table at a specific time he can rake out the money for a personal chef.
chica are you able to stay where you are indefenately?? i have it worked out with my mom incase i have to leave (my husband is verbally abusive we are trying to work through it) because i am nursing i wouldnt be able to work for a while. it helps that my mom is extremely pro nursing. i am a better cook then her and shes better at cleaning we can work it out.

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Cleaver - posted on 02/16/2013

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i apologize i thought you were saying that his demand to have dinner on the table at a specific time was reasonable i must me pmsing i have been short fused the past few days.

Megan - posted on 02/15/2013

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I'm really sorry to hear that and hope that your situation gets better. Is there any chance that you two could work it out? Sometimes the amount of cooking and cleaning you have to do throughout the day can make life very hard... but it is understandable that your fiance would be upset if dinner wasn't ready because it sounds like he works very hard. I am not trying to take his side, but I really hope that you guys can work something out?

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