Stay at home mom hard to deal with husband

Theresa - posted on 12/20/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Hello! Ok so I don't know what to do... My husband & I never used to fight ever and ever since having my daughter who is 22 months old all we do it fight. About everything. I know he has expectations of me and especially because I'm a stay at home mom... I think he thinks I sleep all day or something... He's such a good man but he's just so demanding these days. He thinks being home is so easy and I try to explain things to him but he just doesn't get it. How do I deal with this? I find it's making be depressed and I'm just starting to not care about certain things. Doesn't help that it's cold out now either.... I'm bored and frustrated.

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Lataya - posted on 12/20/2013

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I know exactly how you are feeling. I went threw the same thing with my husband, I became a SAHM when our first daughter was born. She is now 3 years old. I just gave birth to our second baby girl on Oct 31st.. so my hands are very busy. And in the beginning with our first child me and my husband use to fight all of the time because he had his expectations me as well. But he didn't understand how hard this can be especially When its something new for you to get use too. And when he didn't understand me he made me feel depress, but he just didn't get it. I finally sat him down and let him know how he was making me feel....because I couldn't take him no more. Once I explain to him how my day goes... And now with our newborn I'm even more busy around the house. I find time to take care of my girls, cook and clean. And try and find time for him... I'm on the bottom of my list. I can barely take a bath for 10 mins. When I let him know that, he appreciate me more and the things I do. Talk to your hubby and let him know the way he makes you feel... And he has to support you just as much as you supports him. Good luck hun. Feel free to message me anytime you need someone to talk to or vent:-)

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