Stay at home with 3 kids, without helper( parents is in other country)

Lizhel - posted on 03/18/2016 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I have 3 kids first is 5yrs old, 1yrs old and a new born baby. I am stay at home with kids 24/7 , I can't drive, no job, and my husband is working in nurse his kind of busy and too tired when he get home, we can't go outside until day off.
I don't know what to do, I feel like I'm going crazy.. I wanna get job.. I want helper But we can't afford to get a nanny for my kids...
I feel sucks everyday...
I feel like I'm regret that my life is like this... Instead of I'm doing work, saving money, helping my parents,,, finish school.
( i hope you understand my English because I'm not good in speaking English )
Thank you.

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Ashla-Lynn - posted on 03/22/2016

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Ola - posted on 03/21/2016

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Hi Lizhel, I have one child...a 9 month old and I feel overwhelmed! I can only imagine how you feel with 3 kids. Take a walk around your neighbourhood, turn on some music and play it for your kids...you will feel better too. I am not sure how easy it would be to work from home with a 1yr old and a newborn? Once in awhile, find a baby program and let the kids watch. You might find affordable nannies on Care.com that can watch your kids for a few hours while you get some rest. Just hang in there...it will get better. Believe me, there are lots of us like you...its not easy.

Rebecca - posted on 03/20/2016

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Hi lizhel, hope you're feeling better today, I was feeling like that awhile ago but don't worry it won't last (unless it does then probably best see doc) thing is I felt completely overwhelmed and trapped and then things just changed, things will change for you faster than you think, in the mean time get out to a safe place for children to run around and put all cleaning and other motherly pressures on the back burner, it will all get done and keep reading funny mommy stories! Hope this helps a tiny bit

Felica - posted on 03/19/2016

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Hey how are you doing? First thing you should never regret what life have giving you its always a reason for everything even though you might feel overwhelmed really want to change anything sometimes ok all the time but I know you are going to be ok if I could I most def. Would help I myself want a job but im not working right now just me and my little one but I find odds and ends jobs go to school to manage. Have you every thought about working from home? You might can look into doing something like that for a couple hours a day.

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