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Staying Home

Joanna - posted on 04/19/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )




I am a 1st time mom and have a 3month baby boy and I love him to death. I want to stay home with him unitll he's a year old, but I am going CRAZY staying at home all week long!!! How do you other stay at home mom's cope with stayig home all day???


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Being a new mom can feel really isolating at times, especially when your friends don't have children. When your son gets a little older and his feeding schedule gets easier, you can take the bus to the library for story time or to a playground if there's one nearby. Then you can meet other moms and perhaps set up times to get together. It helps to pass the time to have another mom to talk to! Good luck to you and your little boy!

Amy - posted on 04/27/2010




I understand how you're feeling, I have a 10 week old daughter and it's just me and her cooped up in our 3rd floor apartment all day everyday! We also have only one car (it is mine but since my bf is working I let him use it most days) and I don't have a neighborhood to walk in. I'm about to look up a mommy and me group I'm getting so desperate, even though I have been in this town over 3 years and really haven't found any but one person I connected with, and she works full time. It is so frustrating!! Good luck to you, I know how you are feeling! But you are right, I wouldn't want to be anywhere but here with my daughter.

Lindsay - posted on 04/19/2010




I clean alot, find new receipes online and try them, some of them take a while. take your little one in the stroller for a nice long walk, exercise always makes a person feel better. Go to lunch with a girl friend once a week. I love staying home but i do admit it does get to me sometimes, i have just learned to keep busy. good luck!


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Joanna - posted on 04/27/2010




Thanks everyone! we do go for walks everyday (when its not raining) I work on his photo album the only thing is we really cant go anywhere cuz we only have one car and my husband uses it for work and I dont feel comfortable breastfeeding on a bus. and ever since I had my son my friends have dissappeared oh well I'll get used to it...anything to be with my son

Alisha - posted on 04/19/2010




get out of the house with the baby. join a play group support gorup anything to get out and connect with other women who are in the same boat or go to the park and meet other moms too good luck hangin there

Jennifer - posted on 04/19/2010




My baby and I go for walks, attend a breast feeding support group twice a week, hang out with other moms, cook, all kinds of things.
It is important for you and your baby to get out and do things or you will go crazy.
Its also nice to have a lazy day every once in awhile and stay home and snuggle all day.

Carrie - posted on 04/19/2010




Check to see if there is a Mommy & Me group in your area. See if there are any Gymboree classes in your area as well. Then you can be with your baby, but meet other mothers at the same time. Maybe even be able to set up future playdates. Good luck. :-)

Jessica - posted on 04/19/2010




We don't. lol! I'm not home all day every day, girl. Get out- go to the park. Join a local mom's group. take a trip to the zoo. Go to the mall (you don't have to buy anything- as hard as it may be!) I am the poster momma for cabin fever! I can always find something to do, somewhere. You just have to be creative! =) It's summer, there's plenty to do! Good luck! Let me know if you need any ideas... oh... start scrapbooking, it's time consuming and will definitely keep you busy!

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