Struggling stay at home mom of three

Becca - posted on 08/11/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Okay ladies I'm new to this and came here for advice I been a stay at home mom for about a year I have three wonderful kids most of time my thing is I have a 6 year old in school and a 3 year old and 14 month old home all day and I feel like I clean all day and its never good enough for my mother in law who is always judging me who just stops by in announced all the time any advice please feel like she is coming between me and my fiancée and I'm at end of my rope with her thank you for any advice

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Becca - posted on 08/13/2013

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I try to act like it doesn't bother me but she is so judgmental and always shows up at wrong time when kids are done eating haven't had a chance to clean up their mess or when laundry is in piles to be washed and she is always calling me asking me if my house is clean today I don't know what to do she says my clean and her clean are not the same okay I'm sorry I have three kids at home and its just you an your husband I clean when kids go to bed at night I've found no point in trying to pick every Lil thing up right when there done because I'm exhausted by end of day doing that

Grace - posted on 08/13/2013

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love and respect your mother in law please don't show her that she is boring you, jus pretend as if there is nothing wrong you will see she will change her attitude. Communicate with your fiancée let him know what's bothering you, don't be harsh with the situation handle it simple with care. You are in love with your fiancée not her, never let any come between your joy.

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