Switching roles

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I started looking for work and I got a couple jobs lined up my boyfriend has quit every job he comes across he decided to go and get a first shift knowing that's what I was looking for so now I have no way to get there he said well we could switch roles which I'm not okay with I worked and supported him for two years till I got pregnant then he took over bills usually I'm okay with this role reversal but he can't handle her he gets frustrated and he'd have her in the car constantly running doing what he wants instead of actually taking care if her not only that I'd know I'd still be the one getting up with her all night go to work and come home to a trashed house and no dinner and have to put Tara to bed cause that's how it always is when I work he literally does nothing but play video games watch TV and now with a car running with his buddy's and if I'm gonna do everything I'd rather do it by myself am I wrong? Why can't he just be a man and still want to work even tho I am every time I get a job he always quits even before our daughter and honestly I don't trust him to take care of her and I know he won't keep her on her schedule Ive had her on. I already have one foot out the door with everything he puts me through this would be the last straw

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Michelle - posted on 04/05/2016

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That was really hard to read without punctuation.
In a nutshell, you have more problems in your relationship than just what shifts you are on. You need to decide what is best for you and your daughter.

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