This is kind of a vent post, and I don't know how many of you out there have been in this situation before

Erin - posted on 07/15/2011 ( 11 moms have responded )

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I started in a small band a couple months ago (singer) and we've already had a couple of gigs. It's going really well, and we seem to click which is awesome. It's hard to find friendships in bandmates.

My husband has and always will support me in following this dream, and he's up for where ever this career will take me. He's really excited that I'm following my passion.

I guess the lead guitarist and his girlfriend's relationship was on the rocks when we started up the band. And right before our first gig they split. He said it was a long time coming. I don't know what their relationship was like and never really asked about it. Just the usuall "how's it going with 'so and so'? " The break up was really rough, not for him, but for her and she has been harrassing him ever since, just being a real b!t@h about it all. I never intervened. It's not my place.

So we jammed last night for a couple hours at his parents place (that where he's been staying since the split) and then we were going to head of to watch another performer at a local pub. But I was wiped (kids lol they wear you out!) from the day and bailed and headed home.

So his ex FB messaged me and asked how the performance was and I said I didn't go, and that I didn't know if he did or not after I left. And then she asked if my husband still went (which caused my eyebrows to raise), and I told her no, that he was home with the kids. And then we had some small talk and then she said, well that's all I needed to know. Thanks. And I said okay. bye.

Well what a shit show afterwards. She posted on her status this...
Nice to know you satisfy every little desprit house wife you come across sweetie poo. :) Im gonna enjoyyy life now that you are not in it :D yay

And now I'm really wondering what's going on. I messaged my bandmate about it, and he said she was freaking out that I was over there jamming with him last night, so he said that my husband was going to be there to calm her down. Even though they're broken up, I guess it matters. So she freaked out even more. I confronted her about wether her status was about me and that if it was that she was mistaken. And she replied no with a little smiley face to back it up.

I don't know their history or even why they broke up, but regardless, I am a happily married woman who has two beautiful children that my husband gave me. And I know when you get into the music industry that there are always rumors, but seriously. This chick needs an attitude adjustment.

Thanks for listening :)

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Danielle - posted on 07/26/2011

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She sounds like a loon. I'd try to just ignore her because people like that aren't worth it. Though, I'd be tempted to punch her too lol and I'm not one to hit people :P

Erin - posted on 07/19/2011

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In all honesty Emma, I really wanted to too. lol. Haven't wanted to hit someone that bad since before I had kids ha. Maybe when that time of the month comes around I'll reconsider. I could plead insanity lol.

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She sounds psycho...and extremely immature to try to bring a married woman into it. Guess we know why they broke up :)

Erin - posted on 07/15/2011

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Thanks Nika! That's how I feel too. I know how it can look to people outside of the situation, but you're right. I know my life status and that is what matters! :)

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Yes she does. I would say to just ignore people like that all they want is attention. You know your status in life and that's all that matters..forget her!

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