toddler daddy phase

Pamela - posted on 09/07/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My 2 year old rather be with his daddy it hurts

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Ans - posted on 09/16/2015

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It does hurt, I know but just remember he needs you forever. This is just a phase that he is going through. My kids did and are still doing the same to me. My daughter for expamle, she always wants me except when she is sick then she only wants her dad. That hurts because I am suppose to be the one to take care of the sick kids and things but she wants him . My 1year old only wants daddy at night, i am not allowed to give him bottle at night but I can do everything else.

My husband still acts like a kids too, but when needed he is a good father when the kids and I need him to be.

What I am saying is jsut hang in there it will get beter........

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Ans - posted on 09/16/2015

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I understand completely. I am the one that has to discipline and be mean but daddy is the one that is fun and plays doesn't yell at them. I take it as you do the same.

Something that you might want to do, is take your little one on a fun mommy and son day. Try not to be mean and show him that you can also be fun. Because all he is sees is mommy is mean and daddy is nice. Show him that you can by nice to then maybe he will come around.

Speak to the father too, he is also guilty in this whole thing. He sometimes needs to step up and be a father and discipline him so that the child can see that daddy has a mean side too.

It is gonna take some time but keep trying and loving your son no matter what. Hang in there.

Pamela - posted on 09/16/2015

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Hi anv van ghent that made me feel better that what I mean his dad work a lot so when he was newborn we were together like glue I feed him took care when he was sick my husband never took him to doctor so it hurt cause I still remember when he was newborn he was my heart forever now he a toddler he don't listen act up with me but daddy he want him and no better im like that not far he also act like a kid too guess that there bond

Pamela - posted on 09/07/2015

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Why my toddler call me daddy and then mommy that like a punch in face his daddy didn't go thought pregnantly stages I did it change my body and mind to be a mommy already my husband act like a kid too is that why

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