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Tara - posted on 07/07/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My husbands 5 year old daughter decided to lie to her mom and said that I smacked her across the face! I have never spanked her, let alone smacked her in the face! This caused a huge problem with her mom and now she's trying to fight me. On top of this I have my husbands mom who is encouraging the situation and trying to start trouble with me. My husband already told his mom that he doesn't want anything to do with her because of this situation, but I feel bad. I was never close to my own family, and I loved that he was close to his. Now this situation is causing a huge rift in the family. I understand why everyone (but my husband) believes the little girl but what can I do to prove that I never touched her? My husbands knows that I didn't because I would have told him, and his daughter would have told him the day it happened, instead of waiting to tell her mom after all this time that it supposedly happened. Now everyone is blaming me for the situation. They say it's my fault, if I wasn't still in my husband lifes that everything would be fine. Now his mother is harassing me and constantly sending me messages on my phone and on the internet.

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Tara - posted on 07/07/2010

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I don't know what was said to her. I'm now not allowed to talk to her or see her because her mother won't allow it. And it's really not possible for us to sit down and talk together. Things got too heated and she refuses to talk to anyone, she only wants to fight. Which I don't understand. I have my own kids to take care of so I'm not worried about her drama. She will fight infront of her kids and talk bad infront of her kids and I refuse to do that. We definitely have different parenting styles, to say the least!

Shanon - posted on 07/07/2010

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has anyone ask the little y u smack her and she whats she say. if she comes up with a lie for that then u and ur husband need to set down and talk to her with the mom and the others. hopeful if u all get together and talk that will help.just keep ur head up and what ever u do dont let it break u and ur husband apart.

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