what shull i do mother with 5 kids and married with no love from husband

Sue - posted on 03/10/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I am a mother with 5 children i have been married for 24 years my husband don't take me out any were or the kids as a family for 15 years .he dnt even say lets go for a walk or swim or meal holiday .he works 7days weeks Monday is his day off but goes to Manchester on his own i say i come he says no got business. He payed the bills ad when i say i need mony for food clothes for kids r growing up he says i havnt got none ,i need to. Pay bills we haven't got joint account he don't want to have one . I would love to go work ear my own money but i have a sick child i have to look after him 24/7 i hate asking him for money he gives £10 ad says that's all i got i need petrol .money he say walk he drinks all the time gives Money to his parents don't talk to me or the kids dint sit together he sits in his own catches him cheating on me twice fir gave him fir the sake off kids to keep family together i am not happy he blames me my son got ill my folt

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Robin - posted on 03/13/2015

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I would leave him.. God made you from Adams rib you are supposed to be his partner his equal. He didn't make eve from his head to be above him or his feet for her to be below him but his rib to stand by his side to be protected by him and to be his equal. You have stood by him it seems like and you have forgiven him as a wife should. It he has a job as a man and a husband as well and if he is going to think he is above you then you need to move on to find your equal. As for staying together for kids that's great but sometimes it's best for the kids if both parents are happy. And they can't hold it against you since you tried when he clearly didn't. If you stay with him then you are entitled to the money as well. Either start demanding equality or find your equal that must still be out there waiting for you. Hope everything works out for you 😀

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