what shull i do mother with 5 kids and married with no love from husband

Sue - posted on 03/10/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I am a mother with 5 children i have been married for 24 years my husband don't take me out any were or the kids as a family for 15 years .he dnt even say lets go for a walk or swim or meal holiday .he works 7days weeks Monday is his day off but goes to Manchester on his own i say i come he says no got business. He payed the bills ad when i say i need mony for food clothes for kids r growing up he says i havnt got none ,i need to. Pay bills we haven't got joint account he don't want to have one . I would love to go work ear my own money but i have a sick child i have to look after him 24/7 i hate asking him for money he gives £10 ad says that's all i got i need petrol .money he say walk he drinks all the time gives Money to his parents don't talk to me or the kids dint sit together he sits in his own catches him cheating on me twice fir gave him fir the sake off kids to keep family together i am not happy he blames me my son got ill lots more to tell to long story i love my kids he hates his daughters one has left because of his drinking ad his aggressive behavior,ad he said if the next daughter goes he will too .

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GlenS - posted on 03/15/2015

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If you can take some legal action against this ignorance.

However after all there is a God who will give you more care , love , and in your needs he will be a Great supplier and while you are walking through the valley of death , He will be your rest. I am praying for you I believe God will change your situations and your family life.

In Jesus Name Amen Amen Amen

Lisa - posted on 03/15/2015

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Hi. As I read your story it brought tears to my eyes as I can relate. My suggestion is for you to find a work at home job. Customer service, etc. It's a start on having some kind of independence. I truly can relate as I just feel like the woman that was ok to have children by while he does what he wants and now he pays child support from his infidelities and his parents are the King and Queen as I was told I am not part of his nucleus. Wow! He really pulled a wool over my eyes for years. Anyway, I quickly got caught up in my own issues. Lol....Stay strong and come up with some type of game plan. Working from home is a start. Perhaps in time when you feel comfortable, you can do what is best for you and your children and leave if he doesn't change. Your husband may not be for change because of the alcohol, but you are the strongest link for your children right now. Don't dwell on what he is not doing because it seems that it just got worse over the years. Just focus on what you can do to make it better for your children. I need to take my own advice, seriously.

Alicia - posted on 03/13/2015

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yikes. I'm sorry but this marriage sounds pretty toxic. It sounds like its time for a talk with your hubby. I hope you can work out something healthy for the both of you and your family. Good luck!

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