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OKAY , I NOTICED A LOT OF PARENTS ON TUMBLR *WHO I DO NOT FOLLOW , BUT MY FOLLOWERS RE-POST THEIR PICTURES* ALLOWING THEIR YOUNG BOYS TO DRESS UP AS GIRLS . . . AND I UNDERSTAND PARENTS CAN DO WHATEVER THEY WANT TO BUT AS A CHRISTIAN PARENT I DON'T THINK IT'S OKAY TO ALLOW YOUR SON TO DRESS LIKE A GIRL . . . I PERSONALLY BELIEVE THAT IF YOUR CHILD WANTS TO DRESS AS ANOTHER GENDER YOU SHOULD GENTLY EXPLAIN TO THEM IT'S NOT RIGHT . . .

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Sandra Beate - posted on 12/10/2013

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I think that there are more important things to worry about when it comes to children. I think that all kids go through a stage like this specially boys that spend most of their time with mom for example i was a stay home mom for my son and he spent a couple of days wanting to wear my shoes. My husband was freaked at first, but not something to worry about. I think that children are just like adults and should be allowed to find their own way, and being told that they are not right it will create MANY issues later in life. Do you also believe in the fact that girls should never wear pants? There is such a double standard between boys and girls and i believe that everyone should just do what is right for their children and not worry much about others children (unless they are in serious danger in their home)

Danicia - posted on 12/10/2013

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I think that if that is the thing that gets your panties in a knot, you need to find a more worthwhile cause. it's not uncommon around the world for boys/men to wear dresses/skirts just a taboo for western culture. at least they aren't walking around with their d*** flopping around, so be grateful for that instead of worrying how the fabric is styled on them. females wear guys' clothes all the time and it's becoming less and less taboo for males to wear female clothing options. what you view as right and wrong is your opinion (in this aspect especially), you don't have to like it or do it, but telling someone else they are wrong for doing something that completely doesn't harm them or others is just a waste of time and frankly stupid.

Michelle - posted on 12/10/2013

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Another useless bit of information for you:
High heels were originally designed for British male aristocrats, not females.

Maybe you need to research a bit of history before making such broad statements.

You may also be better off posting this in the Christian Moms as you will probably get more support.

FYI: I am the admin here and can unlock threads. I also didn't personally attack you but you did to me. You called me a bitch, that's not very "christian" of you. Best not to flag the Admin's posts.

Cassandra - posted on 12/09/2013

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you must not be a real christian. If you were, you wouldn't have a problem with this issue. Oh ive got it, you are one of those mega church, take every biblical refrence at face value and leave the true meaning types of christians, right? Im sorry, I thought you were a true follower of The Way.

Michelle - posted on 12/09/2013

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You do realize that many years ago pink was a "boys" colour.
Why can't children wear what they feel comfortable in? Just like adults. There are plenty of adults that dress like the other gender.

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I asked for a comment not for you to be rude about it bitch can you read ? GIRL CAN WEAR PANTS but dressing like a boy isn;t normal

Michelle - posted on 12/09/2013

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So do you not let a girl wear pants or dress like a boy?
I thought "Christians" were supposed to be accepting but it seems that you are very narrow minded. Oh that's right, you're only accepting of those that do what you perceive as "right".
Sorry but you lost all credibility when you brought religion into it.

PS: It's also best not to write in capitals as it looks like you're shouting.

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