why wont my boyfriend get up??

Sophie - posted on 01/24/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )

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why is it my partner is in bed all afternoon ive been up with my two babies 11week old and 13months now every morning so god knows how long. am tired all time i do every night feed for past 7weeks with my son. my man just stays in bed all day long, up all night and i still have to get up threw night and feed my son. i try and wake him up. its stress me out why do i have to do everything day in and day out. he doesnt help around house its always me. he always does what he wants on laptop all day long and night never helps with kids hes always in kitchen on laptop never in room with me and kids . am only 19 years old. and feel sometimes ive got world on my shoulders

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Sophie - posted on 01/27/2013

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what do i do now because i had a talk with him told him how it makes me feel, what it is doing to me..... one day later he didnt go to bed till hlf 4 in morning now he wont get up :(.... confused lady

Jodi - posted on 01/24/2013

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Let him know you sure will tell him what to do if he doesn't get off his lazy ass, and part of that will include telling him not to hit his lazy ass with the door on his way out when you kick it to the kerb. The VERY least he could do is get a damn job and share some of the work with the babies. He is LAZY and SELFISH, and you don't need him around. He is like your third child, and you don't need that.

Sophie - posted on 01/24/2013

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i try and tell him to help but he say i am controlling him, telling him what to do. i tell him to help but when i do it starts an argument and i dont want to shout in front of my kids been brought up not to do that so i drop it and forget it and just carry on doing it myself .

and non of us work atm. x

Michelle - posted on 01/24/2013

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You have to tell him to help out, not ask him to. It took both of you to create the 2 gorgeous children and it takes 2 parents (preferably) to raise them.

If he is up all night then the least he can do is the night feed. You will have to be blunt with him as he doesn't seem to have any common sense!

It sounds like he's not even working so that's even more reason for him to do his share of RAISING the children. He doesn't just get the fun part of making the babies, he has to step up and be a FATHER and help you.

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