would you forgive your partner for this?

Vikki - posted on 09/02/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




i have forgiven my partner three times for cheating and even though its been nearly two years since the last time he cheated on me i am really struggling to get over it. The time that hurts the most is when i was pregnant and he cheated on me with a girl from work who also was in a relationship but was also pregnant at the same time as me. we argue and i bring it up every time so i don't know if i can truly say i have forgiven him ad the trust is very very hard to get back even after nearly two years. every time i found out i have been pregnant so i have thought it was down to that. I have tried very hard to forgive and forget but really struggling even now what do i do as there are also three children to think of?


Jodi - posted on 09/02/2012




Once, I might consider forgiving, depending on the circumstances. Three times? Sorry, I wouldn't forgive the piece of shit if my life depended on it. I'm sure he was sorry the first time, right? And knew how much it hurt you right? And yet, still, he did it again and then again. All when you are pregnant. Sorry, he's a piece of shit, and that is me being nice to him. I wouldn't forgive him, I wouldn't be with him. Get some self-respect and kick his arse to the kerb.

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